If you’re manifesting specific person back into your life, I need you to pause everything you’re doing right now and watch this video. Because what I’m about to share with you might completely shift how you approach this entire process – and honestly, it might save you months of unnecessary suffering.
Watch the Featured Video – Why manifesting brings up shadows and unpleasant emotions (the ego death)
I know how you feel
I’ve been exactly where you are. That panic, that desperate need to get them back, that feeling like your happiness depends entirely on whether they choose you or not. And I’m going to tell you some things that might be hard to hear, but they come from a place of love and experience.
I do think you deserve all that you want and this is why I made this post.
The gap in SP manifestation
Here’s what’s really happening when you’re manifesting specific person: You’re not just dealing with the present moment heartbreak. You’re carrying all the past emotions still trapped in your body, all the memories from your relationship, the past experiences that this person now symbolises to you, and on top of that, you’re creating this gap between what you believe is yours, your end goal, the wish fulfilled, and what you’re actually experiencing right now.
And that gap? That’s where all your suffering lives. It’s very hard to navigate so give yourself some grace.
It’s like your soul knows what’s for you but what you’re experiencing now is different and this creates deep confusion.
But here’s the thing – when you see yourself as a victim in this situation, you often can’t see how you might be rejecting other people because you’ve rejected yourself so deeply first. Were they really emotionally unavailable, or was that just a reflection of how you view yourself that got mirrored back to you? And this is not something to beat yourself up for, it’s something to love and accept yourself for. To forgive is to accept and to forget.
But let’s not forget something important here: they’re also people with their own traumas and inner work to do, their own problems. We don’t look at them as puppets that just react to what we do – they’re separate people who have their own human mind, plans, dreams, adversities. They sense our energy, yes, but they also deal with their own communication issues and problems. They’re human beings on their own journey, not brainless characters in our manifestation story.
You are the source of love
I want you to understand something fundamental that might be hard to accept: This person – and I don’t like when people call them your “SP” or “specific person,” they’re just a person – they never actually gave you love. The only source of love is you. Only you can give yourself love.
Now, I’m not denying that this person is special to you or made you feel genuinely loved – all this was real. IS real. I’m not dismissing that you feel a strong connection with them. It may very well be your person, your actual destiny – but we don’t know this if everything is obscured by attachment and strong emotional responses.
I know that sounds harsh, but hear me out. They may have appeared in a certain way that made you feel love – their behaviour, their attitude towards you – but that was only a permission slip. Their actions were just giving you permission to feel the love that was already within you.
You are the source of love
Write it down or share in the comments for others to learn from: You are the stillness in which love arises. You are the source of love.
When you feel love for this person, when you think of them with warmth in your heart. But that’s not a sign they’re coming back. That’s not a message from the universe. That’s the experience of love happening for you right here, right now. This is important. And if you spend all your time trying to dissect your reality looking for signs, you’re going to miss the actual experience of love and fulfilment that’s present in this moment, by constant analysis and logical strategizing. By the techniques for manifesting specific person.
Love just is. And if you’re not ready to admit that it’s a wonderful thing this person exists on the same planet as you. At the same time, being happy and healthy, living their best life. Even if you’re separated by distance and circumstances – then maybe what you’re feeling isn’t unconditional love. Maybe you’re trying to fill a void in your heart because part of you believes you’ll only be whole if they love you back.
This is tough love, but it’s necessary.
The question that changes everything
I want you to ask yourself this question, and really sit with whatever comes up. What if you never reconcile with this person?
What happens in your body when you ask that? And what fears or maybe panic surface? What stories start playing?
Only by facing this fear can you see where this need, this desire to be together, is really coming from. Because often, it’s not coming from love – it’s coming from a belief that you’re incomplete without them.
The people in our lives are messengers. They are often the biggest source of our suffering because of the strong attachment we hold towards them and their actions. They’re permission slips to feel the love that’s already within us. But the love either is, or it isn’t. It doesn’t depend on their choices or their presence in your life.
How to actually move forward
So what do you do with all of this? How do you move forward? Can we continue manifesting specific person?
Sure!
First, stop giving all your energy to someone who isn’t present. Focus on what’s in front of you now. Think only of what’s here, and let go of obsessing over what’s not present – like this person or their attention.
Second, take responsibility for your own happiness. Stop expecting this other person to be your source of fulfillment and washing your hands of that responsibility. Invite people into your life from this standpoint. And know that the only thing that can ever fulfil you is reconnection with your true self by resting in awareness. And I have a video that can help you with this practice.
Third, understand that love is always here. We just obscure it with our strong attachments and our conditioning that places our happiness in other people’s hands.
The goal isn’t to get them back – the goal is to remember who you are without them, to find your wholeness, your peace, your love that doesn’t depend on anyone else’s choices – because you’re the I AM, the awareness of being having this human experience. Because remember: they never gave you love in the first place. You gave it to yourself, using their presence as permission. And you can give yourself that same permission right now, without needing them at all.
Conclusion
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This work – this inner work of finding yourself again – this is what will actually transform your life. Whether your SP comes back or not becomes secondary when you remember that you are already whole, already loved, already complete. You are I AM.
Be still and know that I AM God.
If this resonated with you, I want you to take one action today: Spend some time alone, without distractions, and just be with yourself. No manifesting techniques, no visualization, just you getting reacquainted with who you are when you’re not desperately trying to get someone else’s love.
Let me know in the comments what comes up for you. I read every single one, and your journey matters to me.
