So your ex texted you. How exciting! You thought “oh my god, it worked, it’s happening!” – and then… they disappeared again. What happened? Today we’re talking about why you manifested your ex back… but you can’t seem to manifest them staying.

Watch the Featured Video – You manifested them BACK but then they left AGAIN

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It’s not your fault

People will tell you that your manifestations come to you when you don’t want them anymore, when you’re detached but nobody will tell you exactly how to get into that state and I will share that with you later also.

Look, I get it. You’ve been doing the work. You’ve been affirming, visualizing, living in the end – and you thought this will fulfil you and you will detach. That’s what others told you to do. You manifested your ex back for a moment, that first text, and you were so sure this was it – your manifestation was here. And then they pull away again, and you’re left wondering what you did wrong. Like, “I can manifest coffee, I can manifest parking spaces, why can’t I manifest this?”

None of this is your fault and it doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. I was there also and the manifestation community had me fooled – I wasted a lot of time, focusing on the wrong thing and it felt terrible. Now I see that it was part of the process also. So, you’re doing everything right, I promise.

I also have a video about this topic specifically, so you can read it here: Why I can only manifest small things but the big things seem to delay.

Point 1: Everyone is you pushed out doesn’t mean what you think

We’re told “everyone is you pushed out” like people are puppets on strings. Like if you just think the right thoughts and say the right affirmations, you can control someone else’s behaviour. So if you manifested your ex back but then they ghosted you again, it’s not because you imagined them wrong or have the wrong assumptions.

But that’s not what Neville Goddard actually meant when he said that, it was conveniently misrepresented and perpetuated as such. He meant that everyone and everything shows up according to the state and identity you occupy – but there are unlimited ways that can be expressed.

And “everyone is you pushed out” is concerning how intuitively people sense your energy that has impact on how they show up rather than you having the direct impact on their behaviour as if they are puppets. Your energy is what others perceive even before you start talking and that’s what has impact on their role in your life.

If you’re in the identity of being loved, chosen, and prioritized, yes – your ex could feel that and come back. But it could also mean someone else who can actually give you what you need shows up instead. The universe doesn’t care about the “how” – it cares about matching your energy. And providing you with the feeling you’re looking for because it wants the best for you. And notice how I said the feeling – not the thing itself.

Your ex has their own consciousness, their own history, their own baggage. You can’t just steer them somewhere while your energy is simultaneously pushing them away.

They are their own people with their own problems, struggles, conditioning, on their own path – and it’s not up to you to change it or speed it up.

Point 2: They came back… But your energy stinks

If your ex came back and things were good for a minute, but then they ran when things got too real or too close or simply seem like they lost their interest – here’s the hard truth:

1. They might not be ready. And honestly? They might never be.
2. But more importantly – love doesn’t feel safe for you yet. You have inner beliefs, blocks, what some people call the “pain body” – that signals to your nervous system that love does NOT equal security.

So when they get close, your nervous system freaks out. You might not consciously feel it, but your energy broadcasts it. And guess what? They feel it too. You have expectations, place high importance on them to show up a certain way or come in with a grand gesture – they can sense something is not right.

People are VERY intuitive. If they always felt on edge with you before, coming back to the same triggering dynamic will just remind them of exactly how they DON’T want to feel. And they may not be able to put a finger on it, what’s exactly wrong, it’s just a gut feeling.

You’re both dealing with your histories – with each other and with love itself. And that’s a really difficult pattern to break.

And I know it hurts to hear it – I’ve been there too, it’s disappointing. But I want you to remember more than ever – you are safe. If you manifested your ex back once, maybe it can happen again. But next time, you’ll be emotionally ready.

Point 3: You’ve been bypassing the one technique that actually works

Here’s what’s really happening: You’ve been so focused on finding the perfect technique, the right words to say, the exact visualization experienced feelingly that will finally make them stay – that you’ve been spiritually bypassing yourself.

You haven’t been feeling your feelings. You’ve been white-knuckling it, trying to control the outcome, treating this manifestation like it’s the only way you’ll ever be loved and happy.

And that’s a heavy burden to carry. Those are really high stakes.

And the technique everyone’s missing is total self-acceptance. Which means actually feeling what you’re feeling. The fear, the grief, the anger, the desperation – all of it has a place in this journey. Not bypassing it with another affirmation or visualization, because we think that this is what will speed up the results.

Because when you avoid what scares you most, you stay stuck. But when you let yourself explore it, feel it, and release it – that’s when you expand your nervous system’s capacity to actually receive and hold healthy love.

Can exes be manifested in the first place?

Now, does this mean you can’t manifest your ex back? No. That’s not what I’m saying at all.

What I’m saying is this: all you can do is remove the emotional blocks between you and feeling worthy of what you want. And when you do that – when you live your best life, open to receive and trusting in the path divine consciousness has prepared for you – you naturally attract what’s for you.

And here’s the thing: if you’re feeling resistance to my words right now… if you’re thinking “she’s saying I won’t get them back” or if this feels dangerous, threatening – pause. Tune into that feeling you’re experiencing right now.

Use this as an opportunity to meet yourself where you are. Approach yourself and your reactions with love. Because that resistance? That fear? That’s the block we’re talking about. That’s what’s keeping you stuck in the cycle.

And your body reacts first. It’s your feedback system, showing you what your nervous system reacts to – it always gives away your heart’s energy. And it’s almost like a classical conditioning, not something we can control with our conscious mind but a response. It’s a reaction of the nervous system or subconscious programming, and we can feel it in our body.

How to *actually* manifest

And here’s something I know about manifesting for sure: it’s surprising. It never happens when you’re white-knuckling it, checking your phone every five minutes, waiting for it. It catches you off guard when you’ve already moved on. Maybe you manifested your ex back before you’ve moved on and you weren’t ready yet.

So you know how to tell when it’s actually coming? When you don’t want it anymore. Not because you’re forcing yourself not to want it, but because you genuinely don’t need it to feel whole. The only sign you should be looking out for in manifestation as confirmation it’s coming is the internal shift – feeling the peace and alignment.

And how do you get there? You remove the emotional blocks that create that sense of urgency within you – forget the techniques. Once you let go of these heavy emotions – the desperation, the “I’ll never be happy without this” – you lose that urgency. You stop thinking these external things will fulfil you. And that’s when everything shifts.

You *are* ready for more

Now, I want to be real with you – knowing you need to feel your emotions is one thing. Actually knowing HOW to do it, which emotions are blocking what, how to move through them without drowning, how to expand your capacity safely – that’s the deeper work. And it’s a skill nobody teaches us – it’s simply feeling what you’re feeling, letting it come up, meeting it with love and acceptance. You allow yourself to experience what shows up for you today knowing it’s a crucial part for your nervous system to understand that it’s safe always.

What I’m showing you today is just one part of the overall process I take people through inside my program, we go much deeper into the other steps so you can implement it seamlessly. It all starts and ends with you – not more acquired knowledge from content, not more techniques – but your unwavering presence, self-acceptance and deep understanding of who you are – the I AM, having this experience here to expand and grow.

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Conclusion

So you manifested your ex back but then they ghosted you again. This sucks.

I know this is a hard pill to swallow. Most people aren’t ready to hear this – they just want the technique that will bring their person back.

But here’s the truth: when you feel, you heal. And when you heal, things become more possible for you.

Not just with this person – with everything. You stop being scared to feel what’s here and you start living your life without fear and self-inhibition. And you start knowing that all is well, always. You become magnetic not because you’re doing some perfect manifestation routine, but because you’re genuinely happy with who you are – happy with it, and happy without it.

That’s when everything shifts. And that’s when love that actually lasts becomes yours forever.

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