We are once again approaching the holiday season – a perfect opportunity to curl up under a blanket with a good book or engage in so-much-needed self-care. I always used to struggle to find the perfect gifts that don’t suck and bring genuine happiness to others. Today, I’m sharing the best self-love gift ideas for women, which my besties and other women in my life loved, and I believe women in your life will too!
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Tailor Your Gift
The best gifts are the ones that you know align with the receiver perfectly. Wouldn’t it be great to always know what other people desire? There’s nothing worse than a gift that ends up in a corner, unused, simply because it’s of no use to them.
I would often take a leap of faith and assume that girls in my life would enjoy what I enjoyed for myself also, especially considering that I tend to have a rather basic taste in things I buy. And if not, at least they try and know!
What is Self Love Anyway?
What is self love? To me, self-love is a verb. It’s a set of actions that enhance my well-being, foster a sense of inner calm. Generating an overall feeling of being pampered and cared for. It’s me safeguarding my boundaries, being present in the moment with myself. Pursuing what feels good and authentic to me at present.
But self-love is also a mindset. It’s how you perceive yourself, the thoughts you create about yourself and your life, your capabilities, limits, what can and can’t affect you. It’s about self-compassion and forgiving yourself for the wrong choices you’ve made. And setting healthy boundaries with yourself, others and the world. Self love is something that enhances your resilience, self-concept and personal care.
I love self-love. It’s such a warm, fuzzy concept that stirs these feelings inside me and builds a strong appreciation for myself and my life.
Read more about what Self love is and how it can change your life for the better.
Why Self Love Gifts Are the Best – TLC Time!
By gifting a present that is exclusively for this person alone, there’s something very considerate about it. I love giving gifts that I know only this person can use, something so personal, thinking about this person only, to make them feel special. These gifts allow them to have some relaxing moments and just unwind in this high-paced world.
Most of my besties are absolute dynamite, hard working women who spend most of their day in their masculine energy. This can be so exhausting and completely impersonal, so a self-love gift is my way of saying:
Girl, I see you, I love you – you deserve some rest.
Because we all deserve to relax in our divine feminine, be pampered, cared for and feel so amazing. With these best self-love gift ideas, you will win the hearts of all the women close to you!
Because in the end gifting presents is not about buying products but strengthening your bond with each other and these ideas will achieve just that and more!
Celebrate Friendship Gift Ideas
Let’s start with ideas that will increase your quality time with your loved one girlie. Self love is also fostering friendships and support systems, having fun and doing what feels right!
Ticket to Filharmony / Concert
Take your bestie to a concert. You can both dress up nicely, have some dinner beforehand, and go for it. I took my friend to The Harry Potter Film Concert (as we both have a soft spot for HP), and we had such a blast. It was my gift to her for her birthday, and now we have memories to cherish forever.
Subscription to Yoga Place for a Month
If you have a favourite place to practise yoga or any other group activity, take your friend with you and buy her a couple of entrances to go together. Share this experience and the blissful feeling you get afterwards together!
Pottery Painting
Unleash your creativity with a pottery painting class. You both will have so much fun together, and you will be able to express yourself creatively and relax. It’s a beautiful expression of your feminine energy side and it will fuel you for some time.
Cooking / Baking Class
Who doesn’t love good food and pastries? This is another idea to spend time doing something in the company of your favourite human and enjoy the bonding and quality time. Plus, you learn new recipes to wow people during dinner parties!
Online Course Subscription
Perhaps you and your friend wanted to take an investing, business or creative course for some time. Take the first step and enrol both of you to start this journey and begin building something together for your dream life! It’s easier to start together and keep each other motivated and accountable.
Beauty / Self-Care Gift Ideas
My self-love journey starts with making myself feel amazing by proper movement, nutrition and sleep. But I’m not gonna lie – pampering myself with beauty products that make me feel and look good is something I simply love oding. Skincare is my big addiction and I share it with my besties a lot. Get inspired by my picks below!
Face Serums / Toners
I love skincare, especially Korean products and my friends always ask me for recommendations. Sometimes I even give them a small sample of something I bought so that they can try and decide if it works for them. I have a couple of very good findings you might enjoy for yourself or your bestie. They bring you closer to that glass skin!
These are all mostly hydrating serums with some active ingredients as well. Just make sure the person this gift is for does not have any allergies or irritation to these ingredients.
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Set of Face Masks
It’s a self-caring luxury! These are not necessary in a good skincare routine, but fun! Since I started skin care, I would very often bring face masks to sleep over or other forms of quality time with besties. And we always get a nice memory and a mandatory selfie! They hydrate the skin nicely and I can’t stop touching my face the next day.
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Scented Body Lotion
The sense of smell can do wonders to our well-being. Pleasant smells can trigger the release of endorphins, the body’s natural mood enhancers. Scents like citrus, rose, and peppermint are often associated with positive emotions and can lift one’s spirits. Certain scents, such as lavender, chamomile, and jasmine, have been shown to reduce stress and anxiety levels. Aromas like lavender and vanilla are known to improve the quality of sleep. These lotions smell incredible and moisturise your skin – what a treat!
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Spa Gift Set
For a friend who has a bathtub (but not only), a home spa set is a brilliant idea. Remember the effects of certain smells on us? Check out this lavender one, it’s so relaxing.
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Dry Brushing Brush
Dry brushing is beneficial for the skin. It helps exfoliate dead skin cells, unclogs pores, and promotes better circulation, leaving the skin smoother and rejuvenated. Additionally, dry brushing can stimulate the lymphatic system, reducing the appearance of cellulite and promoting a healthy, glowing complexion. I gifted a good brush to a couple of friends, in the name of healthy skin! One-piece brushes are the best, because they will last longer.
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Cosy Gift Ideas
The best self love gifts ideas for women would not be complete without comfort. We need comfy things in our lives that make us feel relaxed and at ease, things that increase our sense of rest and good sleep and help maintain a good cosy temperature in the winter. So let’s dive into the next category of self love gift ideas.
Fluffy Bathrobe / Oodie
Since I moved to The Netherlands, winters have become a cold and damp experience. With very expensive heating and unsealed windows everywhere (yup, this is our reality here), a fluffy warm fluffy warm bathrobe or shawl has become my best friend. My former flatmate had a brilliant ‘oodie’ to go through the winter with. Everyone has some friends who are always cold. So these gift ideas are perfect for such a person.
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Warm Slippers
It goes hand in hand with an ‘oodie’, to be equipped with nice and warm slippers. I’ve chosen these thick socks/slippers for myself, and I’ve been already wearing them for the second season; they are the most useful things. I’m sure your friends will love them too!
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Weighted Blanket
Weighted blankets provide the constant pressure that helps to relax the nervous system. I know a couple of people who have problems relaxing and they sleep under the weighted duvet. A blanket is a nice idea for the winter season for a friend who is always cold and has problems relaxing. Surprise them with this and they will love you forever!
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Sleeping Mask
Good quality of sleep is essential! We get good rest if we take care of good sleep hygiene (regular bedtime, turning off lights and screens 1 hour before bed, not eating 2-3 hours before bed etc) and a sleeping mask can really help. Especially for those of us living in a city, lights are all around us and can disturb our sleep. A good sleeping mask should be comfortable, from a natural and breathable material, block out light effectively, and fit snugly without putting pressure on your eyes. I have such picks here just for this purpose!
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Scented Candles
Scented candles make a delightful gift, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere in any home. The soothing fragrances, whether floral, fruity, or herbal, provide a moment of relaxation, promoting tranquillity and peace of mind. Their soft glow and pleasant scents offer a perfect escape from the hustle of everyday life, making them a thoughtful and cherished present for a cosy moment of Friday evening.
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Fluffy Bed Warmer
Another good friend for the cold days. Fluffy bed warmer only needs hot water and keeps you warm at night until the morning. It’s a more eco-friendly alternative to electric blankets and it lasts for years. It’s amazing for period cramps and I’ve been using it in the teenage years when my period was painful. Now I just use it for winter nights!
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Practical Gift Ideas
Practical self love gift ideas for women are both thoughtful and useful. Include what your friend really loves and these gifts may enhance her daily life, making it more enjoyable and allow for the me-time filled with pleasant rituals.
Craft Coffee Beans
Craft coffee, also known as artisanal coffee, is a true delight for coffee lovers. It’s carefully sourced, roasted, and brewed to perfection, offering a unique and rich flavour profile that caters to individual preferences. A true coffee lover will be grateful for the opportunity to try distinct origin notes and savour a freshly brewed cup of premium coffee, making it a perfect choice for those who appreciate the finer aspects of their favourite brew.
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Cute Teapot For a Tea Lover with Tea Set
I’m personally a huge tea lover. I tried so many different kinds and by now I know my favourites and their specific methods of brewing. I cherish the rituals and get the true pleasure from it. It’s proven that rituals make things taste better. The true tea lover will fall in love with a beautiful tea pot and new teas to brew.
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Matcha Set for Matcha Latte Lover
It’s becoming a very popular drink and I find it difficult to find a good matcha latte in cafes. They usually add too much powder, resulting in bitter drinks. My favourite matcha latte is served at my place – just as I like it. You can buy your friend some premium matcha to make lattes at home or the full matcha ritual set to brew matcha properly at home. Choose what fits your bestie more! I tried Moya Matcha before and whenever I have a chance to get it again, I don’t hesitate! This is a special one among self love gift ideas for women and I would really love if someone gifted this to me!
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Yoga Mat and Accessories
Sometimes the gift of trying a new hobby is great. Or maybe your friend already hinted she would like to try. And sometimes a new pair of yoga pants is a good motivation to go and retry this good habit.
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Mental Health Gift Ideas
Let’s explore some of the ideas that will help your friend to truly love herself – all emotions good and bad and will help accept herself entirely. With these gift ideas my intention is to expand the spectrum of tools available to deal with life challenges and improve emotional control.
Read more about how to deal with challenges in life.
A Cute Journal With Colourful Pens
Find a journal that will make your friend excited to reach for it and start journaling for emotional control. Personally, I adore notebooks, and it’s a very exciting part of the process for me to select a journal I find pretty and just enjoyable to interact with. Pick a journal or notebook that aligns with her aesthetic preferences and feels comfortable to write in. I myself got the one with the Moomins and it’s shiny and just absolute work of art! I use it for manifestation scripting and I love reaching for it every time.
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Gratitude Journal
Among these self love gift ideas for women, we find some space for self-reflection. Inspire her to express her gratitude daily. Keeping a gratitude log can significantly improve mental well-being. By regularly jotting down things you’re thankful for, it promotes a positive outlook, reduces stress, and enhances overall happiness. Cultivating gratitude can also strengthen relationships and help individuals cope better with challenges, leading to a more fulfilling life.
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Self Help Books
We all need a little assistance and education about many things. Explore the books I recommend on this blog with reviews and key takeaways from these books and you might find something for your dear women in your life as well.
Mindfulness Colouring Books
Mindfulness colouring books offer a therapeutic and calming experience, allowing us to focus on the present moment and reduce stress. These books feature intricate designs and patterns that engage the mind and enhance creativity while promoting relaxation.
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Conclusion
We explored the best self love gift ideas for women. In conclusion, embracing self-love is a journey of nurturing oneself, cherishing friendships, and finding solace in small pleasures. These carefully curated gift ideas aim to enrich the lives of the wonderful women around you, encouraging them to indulge in self-care, foster meaningful connections, and embark on a path of emotional well-being.
Remember, the essence of self-love lies not only in the gifts we give but also in the love, care, and thoughtfulness we put into them. May these gestures inspire moments of joy, relaxation, and self-discovery, fostering a deep sense of self-love that lasts well beyond the holiday season. Here’s to embracing the beauty of self-love and sharing it with the amazing women in our lives. Happy gifting!
What other amazing self love gift ideas for women come to mind?
Share your commitments and ideas in the comments below!
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