If you’re only manifesting small things and you keep waiting for the big things to come, this is why. Nobody is talking about it, but it’s literally the most crucial thing in the game of manifestation. So let’s understand why manifesting the “big” things, the dream life, is more difficult manifesting small things

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Why manifesting dream life seems harder

You’ve seen people manifesting on social media, Reddit, endless success stories in YouTube videos. You were also able to manifest the smaller things in your life – parking spots, coffee money, maybe even a text message – but somehow, the big things, the ones that define your desired reality, seem to be lagging behind.

No, you don’t need more techniques. You don’t need shadow work. You’ve already entered the realm of change and it’s unstoppable. All you want is t for you to receive – so let’s remove these blocks, brick by brick.

Nobody is talking about it, but it’s literally the most crucial thing in the game of manifestation. I’ll explain why manifesting your dream life seems more difficult than getting a free cup of coffee for example, in 4 simple points.

Point 1: The attachment problem (but not how you think)

In videos and content like this, you’ll most likely hear that you give these things too much importance. That you don’t manifest because you see them as big, even thought the Universe sees every need as the same size – and it’s true. They’ll tell you that the “big” manifestations hold more value, thus there’s more attachment to the outcome. We place these big things on a pedestal and that causes the energy to be blocked.

That’s why we manifest the small things and not the big ones.

And it’s true, but it’s not the biggest problem.

This is only a part of the problem – or at least it’s way too vague for people to do anything about it.

So if you want to remove attachment, let me invite you to take my free masterclass on detachment and surrender. It’s a comprehensive and hands-on mini course on how to let go without giving up – which is the missing piece of many of us manifesting the life we love. It’s completely free and made with love – it’s something I’m super proud of and I think it will really help you get to that state of trust and peace.

Point 2: What your desires are really showing you

Here’s what most people misunderstand about manifestation – desires are often not only about getting the stuff but also about self-discovery. Every single desire or want or need you ever had or will have has one thing in common: you. It’s a journey back to your self, disguised as pursue for things and experiences.

So what, you will ask. I want the stuff, that’s why I’m here!

Manifesting dream life seems more difficult, why? Each desire you have is a part of you and reveals to you what feels incomplete in you – what isn’t whole yet. We think that we will be complete, whole, happy, peaceful once we get these things, treating them as permission slips.

But here’s the thing…

As I said, desires are a part of you – meaning, their expression is already within you as a part of your experience, that’s one thing. Another thing is that they show you where you need your own love, understanding and acceptance.

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Point 3: The desire that repels

When I say “desire,” I mean the things or feelings you want. Your wishes. Because desire is also an emotion – the longing, the attachment, the high level of importance of these things in your life, as if your life depends on it. Because that’s exactly how it feels to us. The anxiety, the clinginess – that’s the emotion of desire and it feels like we won’t be okay until we get these things.

David R. Hawkins said: We don’t manifest because we have a desire but rather in spite of it – and here he talks about the emotion.

Desire repels your wishes that really want to be born in your life. What you want is for you, and the emotion of desire keeps it far away from your experience for now.

But how come we feel desire towards things, people, and outcomes? The emotion comes from fear – the deeply rooted fear of survival. And there’s only one cause of that: the belief in separation. Feeling like an incomplete, separate being that needs to strive for things to survive, be happy and deserving of love. And it’s an illusion because this physical world is an illusion too – a very convincing one for us to experience this life. To get lost in this experience.

Point 4: Your nervous system isn’t ready yet

If you ever manifested some money but then lost it to an unexpected bill or got a text from your person only to get ghosted again for months – this is exactly why.

Here’s what nobody talks about.

It doesn’t feel safe yet to get what you want. You may feel ready to receive it but you won’t be able to hold it for long.

Your nervous system has capacity to hold what feels safe, normal, neutral. I look at our nervous system and subconscious as the same thing but in different realms of existence – and there are 3 levels of existence and you can read it explained on the blog. Your nervous system looks for familiar, safe feelings. Based on your past experience, it projects onto the future what will feel safe to us.

So if we want more but are not used to receiving more – it will feel dangerous.

It’s like a container. If it can only hold $1,000 of your worth but you’re asking for $10,000, it will enter a panic mode and create the blocks.

The relationship with your body is the most crucial relationship in your human life here. If you’ve watched my videos before, you know how much I focus on our true nature of awareness – you are the awareness of being, the I AM, having this temporary human experience. This body is your vehicle, your wonderful tool in expansion, in this beautiful experience of life.

And your body reacts first. It’s your feedback system, showing you what your nervous system reacts to – it always gives away your heart’s energy. And it’s almost like a classical conditioning, not something we can control with our conscious mind but a response. It’s a reaction of the nervous system or subconscious programming, and we can feel it in our body.

You have constant access to your subconscious

Isn’t it fascinating that we go out of our way to learn what our subconscious mind holds – the beliefs, the assumptions – to know what’s being manifested, but we have access to it at all times actually, via our body that holds all the answers of the nervous system. That’s the only reason why manifesting the dream life seems more difficult than manifesting a random $20.

Notice how your body reacts to what you say, how you react to things. Even with a simple “yes” you can feel your energy being open, lifted, unblocked versus when you say the word “no”: my hand automatically goes up in a gesture of protest. My entire body closes up – and it’s just a simple exercise with words – imagine how much more it reacts to things that are definitely not for us as per its definition of safety. Our body reacts the same all throughout the day if we allow ourselves to listen.

If you want a loving partner, what reaction comes up and where in your body when you see happy couples? What comes up when you think about your ex who you’re trying to manifest back into your life? What comes up when you imagine your person coming home back from work? What do you feel?

Because the body holds all the answers. You just need to listen.

This isn’t mindset work – it’s nervous system work. Your body needs to learn it’s safe to receive, to trust, to soften. This is why I created The Unwavering Creator 7-Day Challenge: to expand your capacity to receive love, abundance, and manifestations from a place of I AM awareness, not survival.

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Conclusion

We dove deeper into why manifesting dream life is more difficult compared to the small things, like seeing a butterfly or getting a parking spot.

It’s not that big things are harder to manifest. It’s not that you’re doing something wrong. It’s that your nervous system hasn’t expanded its capacity to hold them yet – based on what it finds as normal and familiar – even if it’s actually contracting but the familiar monster is better than unfamiliar blessing. Your desires aren’t delayed – your nervous system is just catching up.

And the solution is to regulate your nervous system and accept all as neutral. Make it feel safe, natural and like something that is already your reality.

Now, I know what you’re thinking – how do I actually do this? And that’s the real work. The kind of work that can’t be done by watching a video because let’s face it, we watch and we don’t practice what we’ve learned.

But I want to give you a starting point: notice how your body reacts to things all throughout the day and don’t try to fix it – it’s doing exactly what it was conditioned to do. Instead, reassure it it’s okay – you’re safe. All is well. because it is and you’ve got this.

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